Yes Bishop, we plan to stay here a few years

Or do we?....Well I thought that was the plan. Let me tell you a little story about my husband. Every time we go to a movie we always drop by a store before hand and get a candy. I usually get circus peanuts or peanut M&M's. But my husband has to weigh all the options. Does he want chocolate, does he want fruity, does he want a lot, does he want a little, how much does it cost, and so on. It usually takes him about 30 minutes to decide on a candy for the movie. He will always ask my opinion at least a few times, but I usually don't give it because I notice that the person that makes the decision has to live with the consequences of the decision. So I let him just stand there and figure it out himself while I look at the magazines which are usually located very close to the candy no matter what store you are in. This is just a candy decision, the indecisiveness increases with an increase in price I've noticed. I don't even want to tell you how long it took him to decide which blu-ray to get let alone weather or not to get one.

Now take that scenario and I want you to imagine my husband deciding on a house. You can imagine why I suggested to him that we wait until I'm done with school to make such a big decision. Well a couple of weeks ago, my husband told me that he realized that even with all that we are saving, we won't be able to out right buy the house that we want before we have kids (like we were planning). So the question now became "should we wait?" I told him if he wanted to look he could look, I was going to school.

Well, one of my co-workers who is a real estate agent said she had found a house that she thought I would be interested in. It was 140,000, bank owned, and on a larger piece of land, not quite an acer. This was all the info that she gave me. So I go home and I mention it to my husband. He then starts to ask me a million questions that I do not have the answers to, nor does he expect answers to them (he's just thinking out loud). So to pacify him I ask my co-worker for more information. I should never have done that.

This is what the past 72 hours of my life have been like:

"Honey, I think we should go look at it"

2 hours later:

"Honey, I think we should just keep saving our money"

2 hours later:

"Honey, lets just drive by the house on our way back from church"

2 hours later:

"It's better to have the compound interest working for us"

2 hours later:

(to some one else) "Well, we might be moving"

2 hours later:

"You know they say the price of homes is still going down, we can probably get a better deal if we wait"

To all of these I respond "Ok, Honey"

I'll start to worry if he applies for a loan.